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Same 極品 from the previous article, who I've stopped communicating although she sends me msgs time after time.

She's like never giving up for almost 3 months until she finally realized I didn't even like her and tried to stay away from her after the following incident.

One day she sent me a msg asking me if I find her lack charm or femininity, I simply sent her a question mark then she couldn't help but told me the whole story.

She's admired a guy since university, been friend with him for ages. She did so many for him like comforting him when he's sick and stayed in hospital blah blah blah. But when the guy's checked out from hospital, he's not only staying away from her but also no longer in need of communication with her.

She's upset and made up her mind not to contact him again. A year later he approached her for a Nepal trip which required her full planning. It's a trip of only 2 of them, she's excited and planned everything---maybe it's the chance for both of them to see if there's any chance for development.

Things changed dramatically the second day after they arrived Nepal, he started to criticize and blame her on everything after calling her sweetie the first day. She's so upset the whole trip but managed to stay with him the whole time, ended up a romantic trip becoming a disaster. That's the reason she asked me if she lack the attraction or not.

I couldn't help to ask her: why would you allow a guy treat you like shit? Why would you treat yourself this way? Relationship needs 2 to tango. If a guy treats you like shit, he must dislike you deep enough. I told her directly it might not be his problem but hers because she scared people away, I"m one of them.

It just breaks my heart to see so "many stupid girls" who don't even respect themselves, who would respect and love them?