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我很懷疑我有一種磁性, 偶爾會吸引一些痴男怨女. 對男的我一般可以很絕情, 不是將他永久封鎖就是不理不采. 對女的一般比較容忍. 除了幾年前有個yahoo blogger 跟我熟悉之後約了一起lunch 了一次之後, 這個一再強調自己Oxford master 畢業的瘋婆子就天天打電話給我訢說好的遭遇壓力, 如跟某個blogger 的不快. 和老公相處不可以將不開心告知, 所以很想知道我為什麼可以那麼開心. 每次打電話給我可以歷時一小時, 第三之後我永久性不再聽她電話. 她後來又不停在我blog中問我為什麼可以那麼開心, 我都是少理.
去年居然給我碰上一個極品. 其實是一個認識一年多的朋友, 之前有跟她一起去大陸3天旅行, 雖然人很煩但人很細心和關心人. 她好像很喜歡参加我和朋友的活動, 我也樂於邀請她参加. 
8月她有朋友結婚想買bridal set jewellery. 我在日本玩的時候她已經不停問我意見, 旅行回來我前後用了一個星期每天花1-2hrs 回答她的問題. 這些我都很樂意因為可以幫到她選擇最合適的禮物, 最後她和幾個朋友決定不和其他人買, 直接跟我買. 我打了一個大折扣之後她說希望有一個漂亮盒子因為是禮物, 沒問題, 送. 但我有直接跟她說那個盒不便宜, 因為她是朋友所以沒有關係.
她拿Bridal set 的時間叫我順便拿一些飾物給她看因為她自己想買. 惡夢從此開始:
一起late lunch 之後她挑選了兩個小時, 件件都喜歡, 試完又試到我開始不耐煩因為我趕時間参加我朋友的婚禮. 不停催促之下她選了一條頸鏈, 一條手鏈和兩對大耳環. 我再送她一對耳環, 再打折收她hk$1200. 她終於很滿足地離開了. 

Q announced she's finally passed the madly in love period after 2 months of dating life. I was in shock and asked why it's so fast? It's abnormal because it usually takes 6-8 months for this period.
Her answer was neat: he doesn't give her any excitement and she's often found him boring. However she thinks he's someone she can spend the rest of life with because he's nice and takes care of her. I was speechless but agreed that she should grab this only chance to get rid of single life because we all agree that she wouldn't be able to meet anyone better.
She started to share that how she's often jokingly teasing her bf's bad look, and the bf is often defending himself saying other people admire and praised him a lot. I was once again in shock and yelled at her: you bitch!!! Don't you know beauty in the beholder's eyes? And if he told you the same thing, what would you say? And the truth is you're damn ugly girl.
She's accepted and thought a while and agreed that she shouldn't criticize the bf even a lot of times they're jokes because she never 看不起佢. I laughed out loud and started my lecture with her: such as never say bad things about the bf, give good words, always look up to him blah blah.
She seemed to have learnt (although I don't know if she's going to do it). But seriously this girl is the stupidest I've ever seen.

Q is officially in a relationship for 2 months, after being single and never dated anyone for over 35 years (http://teamaster.pixnet.net/blog/post/41162731).
Few weeks ago she couldnt control herself but had to announced that she's finally dating someone, a guy introduced by her brother in law, who also happened to be a gd friend and secondary classmate of the bro. She has regarded him as the most 好人&老實人while at the same time she thinks he's 沒鬼用, ugly & exremely boring.  Mainly because he's just an ordinary technician who's barely making enough for his living at the age of 40 plus he lacks all kinds of social skills. The only reason she's been checking him out is because he's a good man.
They went for a short trip in the first month of dating which she believes nothing'd happen because he's too good and useless in many ways. Ended up he's afterall a man, the body's taken, the soul's taken. She's officially stepped into "熱戀" in second month. She's so happy and shared how the guy looks at her as the apple of his eyes and touched her face all the time. I got goose bumps right away when this happens to an ugly duck. But at the same time I was truly happy for her because eventually this guy seems to really like her and has been treating her very well.
She put their pic together as her phone screen paper right away. I looked at their pic and couldn't help but commented: Q you said he's ugly but in fact he's way better looking than you bor". Well an ugly duck never understands she's actually the ugly one. And I was wondering how she's going to last this relationship regarding she's an extremely selfish and inconsiderate person, who's never thought for others.
 

Happy New Year!!!!
I actually don't remember what I've done in 2014, seems I've done a lot like setting up my brand, website and FB page. 2014 seems to be an extremely busy year where I enjoyed a lot of sports activities and much more fulfilling at work. 
I always wanted more, like more good looking, more rich, more sucessful, and more LOL. Kidding only.
 
For 2015, I wish myself and my loved ones to stay healthy and happy. That's my only wish for the year.

Just came back from a 5 day trip in Cambodia, spent 2 days visiting Angkor Wat & Thom, which're beautiful as expected.
 
 

Seriously I didn't know anything about 10K, my friend just signed up for me and I thought well what's the big deal I could at least fast walk.
I always jog and fast walk but I never run, and in fact I hate running.
But since we enrolled the game, we started training 6 weeks beforehands. We ran in the sportsground near my home, I couldn't catch my breath after 800M slow run---> I seriously doubted if I could make it.
It's quite amazing to see myself run from 800M, then 1200M, then finally 4000M. I managed to run 8500M myself in the last training and a full 10K 3 days before the game.
 

My friend asked me to upload some songs for my 10K run, he says listening to the songs specially the sad sad love songs which we listen to when we're upset or heartbroken, time will pass quickly and you'll forget about running.I think awhile then being a bit shy of myself because I do have songs of love, songs that heal my pain, clear my thoughts & encourage me to be strong. But they're extremely limited with the number, seems I need to catch up with the numbers LOL.Song for healing: my way is to be dignified of myself.
Song for clearing thoughts: my thought is to let it be.
Song of encouragement: to embrace the sun and to keep running

My friend has helped me enrolled in a 10K running event for next month. We started training officially since last week.
Personally I'm not a person of running, in fact I prefer race walking much better.
The last time I joined a 10K night run, I escorted an older lady and it took us more than 1.5hrs to finish the game. This time I'd like to see how far I can go.
You can imagine it takes quite some training for a person who only fast walks. I'm very bad with my breathing rhythm and often breathe too fast, it's the reason I can't run well.
 

 
雖然中秋的夜晚應該開心賞月，但太多零細的事情在同一晚發生. 例如stall helper 在就來到市集的前幾天才來表示不滿, 什麼貨太重, 不想拉luggage. 除了要對佢百般好說話, 還要想辦法解決問題. 最後需要出動我阿媽去拉貨, 好令她不需要勞緊. 內心雖然煩躁但總算將問題解決. 當然她有足夠理由說太辛苦, 但我想不明白一個9-10kg 的luggage 都拉不動, 那平時真的不需要出門了. 非逼不得已我才不會叫一個外行人來代替我做事, 而在這個關口還要好言相勸, 好像是我求她一個大忙, 而她盡了朋友的最大義務才幫我. 雖然我支持她的工資只有幾百, 但我已經另加佣金提成給她. 難道她做了30幾年人還不明白沒有付出便沒有收獲? 她想什麼我不清楚, 但人是自私的所以我沒有任何理由去埋怨她. 
但這一件小事卻令我有無助的感覺. 身邊的人再一次跟我說做人要靠自己. 我當然知道, 但是我沒有要求free service.  
我決定不去多想, 但負面情緒一下子湧出. 看到過去幾個月自己一手一腳才建立的成績，內心有自豪和滿足. 但刻居然也有憤怒，也許我真的太天真認為人是好的，所以我居然放縱人家用將近一年都搞不好我的website; 而決定不幫我的原因是太忙。請問你忙又得閒出來同我dinner? 食野唔見你唔得閒？Fine! 當我自己做好，問少少newsletter 的事居然都幫唔到，請問你知唔知做人最基本的事？是你拖延我的project 幾個月，最basic 你都需要最後盡你一點點責任去看看有什麼可以幫到. 我永遠都不會明白一個大男人可以次次dinner 時briefing 好像就來完成, 原本大半年過去兩成都沒有做到. 真是難以置信. 然後說做不了就可以完全置身事外, 這世界上真的什麼shit 都有.
我想我是什麼都沒有損失, $ 花了可以賺回來. 最大loser 是他, 因為他的口碑已經完全打破, 想要自己出來做事? 沒可能的事. 

When the whole world is becoming a bit obsessed with the Dior big plastic earrings, I think it might be nice to do something in real pearls instead of plastic since a lot of people have a requirement in their Jewellery. I personally couldn't accept wearing a plastic regardless it's Dior or Chanel.  The luster of a natural pearl could never be replaced by a man made jewel. Who wants to be a plastic beauty if they've already got the natural beauty? But the cruel fact is natural beauty always comes with imperfection and flaws. Does it explain why people are obsessed with the perfectly flawless plastic?